Signs Someone May Be Being Fake

The speaker describes three behaviors to watch for:

1. “Bestie bombing”
   Someone expresses intense affection or closeness immediately after meeting you. The speaker says secure people typically don’t form instant attachments.

2. Over-the-top compliments
   Compliments may feel insincere if the person isn’t genuinely engaged—for example, praising your outfit and immediately turning away. The speaker suggests that excessive perfection or polish can feel like a performed persona rather than authentic connection.

3. Lack of interest in you
   They rarely ask questions about your life and focus mostly on talking about themselves.